Safety

First Meetings Offline
Considerations Before the Trip

Take the time to get to know the person you are going to visit. Ask as many questions as possible. Look for consistency in their answers. Get references about the person from people who know them personally and can vouch for them. Talk to people that have met that person offline.

Find out each other’s thoughts on safety issues. Make sure that all of your safety concerns are addressed.

Discuss what is to be expected. What type of service will be expected if any? Discuss what both individuals are comfortable with. Will there be any sexual use expected? If so, will safety precautions be taken? If the person is unconcerned about using protection, or refuses, rethink the trip. Not only for your own safety, but for future partner’s safety. Many times, a simple meeting without any service is an excellent place to start.

Use common sense.

Keep in mind that both parties are susceptible to danger and/or harm. Not just women. Men should also take precautions in meeting anyone for the first time offline. It is an option to run a background check.

Some level of trust should be established before any offline meeting. Trust is one of the main building blocks to any relationship. If you do not trust the person, then you should rethink the visit. After all, you are in essence, trusting this person with your life. If there are any doubts about your safety, not just physical, but emotional as well, do not go.

No time is too much to feel comfortable about the visit. Take your time, make sure both are ready for the step to meet offline. Make sure any details that need to be discussed are before the trip.

The first meeting should be a meeting without too many expectations. Take the time to get to know each other in an offline setting. Confirm if you are compatible. Reaffirm the connection first made online, in an offline setting.

Don’t expect complete domination or enslavement on the first meeting. This takes time. The first meeting should be a getting to know you all over again meeting. Any form of domination is a long-term process. It doesn’t and shouldn’t happen in a weekend. Total enslavement should be the goal, not the expectation after meeting for the first time, or being in the first stages of a 24/7 relationship.

Another option is to run a background check. You can do this at KnowX.com for about 25.00. It will pull up anything nationally or internationally.

When going through your safety checklist, if you ever come across a “no” answer, rethink your trip.

Planning the Trip

All travel arrangements should be confirmed before the visit, including financing the trip. For example, will one side be paying for all travel costs? Will they be split?

Exchange phone number and address info before the trip.

Exchange information about medical needs, or allergies.

Make sure at least one other person knows where you are going and how to get a hold of you.

Plan at least one safe call. Bring a cell phone if need be to make the call from any location.

Find out the local law enforcement’s phone number, and location in case of an emergency.

If traveling abroad, have the embassy’s number and location.

Schedule to meet in a public place, or a group setting with other people you know and feel safe with. The important thing is to meet in a location you are comfortable with.

There is no need to make any commitments to take it further or to a different location on the first visit.

Have someone you know “drop by” during the visit to make sure everyone is all right.

What if something comes up before the end of the visit? Will the person be able to leave if desired? Have extra cash on hand, and an alternate plan available in case things don’t work out.

If cost is an issue in being able to visit frequently, then consider making the visit for a longer period of time. Use other methods to get to know each other, such as on the phone. Ultimately, however many times you visit, the decision must eventually be made on whether to move the relationship to the next level, 24/7.

Moving into a 24/7 Relationship Offline

In evaluating the decision to move to an offline relationship the focus switches more to compatibility than safety. However, safety should always be a consideration. Are you compatible? Do you have a similar philosophy and outlook on life?

In going 24/7, it is no longer about if you can serve him for a weekend here and there, but if you are ready to serve him continuously, day in and day out. There is no going home after the weekend. The same is true for the flip side. It’s not about being a Master for a few days then sending the girl home and returning to your “normal” life. It is about being responsible for another person, and taking on that responsibility full-time.

What are the expectations for the relationship, from both sides? This covers a multitude of topics. All aspects of the relationship should be discussed, not just the M/s part of it.

How does he feel about having children? Does either side already have kids? Are more kids wanted? What happens if there is a “mistake”? How will the kids be raised?

Does either have an ex? And could/would that ex cause problems?

Is there a firearm kept in the house?

Would he expect her to turn over all monies? What about trust funds? Life insurance? Will he take possession of all assets? Will he also assume all debts?

Have either been on the giving or receiving end of abuse?

Do either have problems with drugs and alcohol? What about the use of those substances in general? How will these things affect the relationship?

Would he be taking another slave in the future?

Does either have any medical conditions? Or mental conditions? How will these conditions affect the relationship and/or service?

What about religion? Are your religions compatible? Does each have one? Is she going to be expected to give hers up?

Will marriage ever be considered?

What about work? Will she work? What type of work will she be expected to do? Is his job something that she can handle? For example, if it were a dangerous profession, would she be able to handle that situation?

Her service to him should be discussed in depth. Will she be only serving him? Will she be serving others? Will that service to others include sexual service?

What happens if the relationship ends? Will she take away the things she came into the relationship with? Will he provide a way back to where she lived before, or to her family? Will she be given any money to live on until she becomes established again? If kids are involved, will he retain custody?